Before further discussion, it’s probably best to just get started.
First, even though everyone’s life is full of challenging and contradictory needs, finding a short 15 to 20 minutes each day to devote to meditative practice is essential. The most beneficial results of meditation psychologically and physically occur after regular practice of months and years. Making this time for practice a priority will help to move other things aside rather than skipping the meditative practice. Warning: life will immediately conspire to interrupt your practice! Your intent will have to be fierce. Phones off, pets in another room, children at school. . .
One of the most simple meditation exercises uses the natural inflow and outflow of the breath: nothing else is needed.
Take a seat in a comfortable position so that you won’t need to shift your posture for a few minutes. The lotus position is fine, but certainly not necessarily. You can accomplish the same by sitting in a chair with a reasonably vertical spine.
Close your eyes and just take a moment to allow the day’s worries and issues to pass from immediate awareness:
Then gently focus all attention onto your breath. No need to alter its rate or its depth, just internally observe.
Next, internally state to yourself “the breath flows in” on each inhale, and “the breath flows out” on each exhale.
After a few cycles, thoughts will likely start to intrude on your practice. Gently refocus attention on the breath exercise each time you reach awareness that your focus has strayed.
Start with 5 to 10 minutes of practice, and try to work up to 20 or 30 minutes per day.
If possible, keep a simple journal, and document for yourself the results of the practice. Compare the entries after several weeks and after several months.
